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Book 41/52 of My #52Books52Weeks Bucket List Challenge

I knew going in that 12 Rules for Life by Jordan B. Peterson would be a heavy read, but I underestimated just how dense it would be. This isn’t a book you fly through—it’s one you have to sit with, digest, and reflect on. In hindsight, it’s probably not the best book to squeeze into a fast-paced #52Books52Weeks challenge, where momentum is key.

I actually finished two other books while trying to get through this one! That said, it’s packed with deep philosophical and psychological insights that make it a worthwhile read if you’re ready to commit to it.

The 12 Rules for Life

1️⃣ Stand up straight with your shoulders back

• Posture affects your mindset and how others perceive you. Confidence starts with how you carry yourself—literally and figuratively.

2️⃣ Treat yourself like someone you are responsible for helping

• We often take better care of others than we do ourselves. This rule reminds us to show ourselves the same kindness, discipline, and care that we would offer a loved one.

3️⃣ Make friends with people who want the best for you

• Your environment shapes you. Surround yourself with people who lift you up, challenge you, and support your growth, not those who drag you down.

4️⃣ Compare yourself to who you were yesterday, not to who someone else is today

• It’s easy to get caught up in comparison culture. Instead, focus on your own small, incremental progress—the Slight Edge effect in action!

5️⃣ Do not let your children do anything that makes you dislike them

• This one’s about parenting with intention. If you let bad habits slide in kids, they’ll become entitled, undisciplined adults. Set boundaries and expectations early.

6️⃣ Set your house in perfect order before you criticize the world

• Before you complain about society or blame external factors, get your own life in order. Take responsibility for your circumstances and actions.

7️⃣ Pursue what is meaningful, not what is expedient

• Delayed gratification beats instant rewards. Instead of chasing quick wins or comfort, aim for long-term fulfillment and purpose.

8️⃣ Tell the truth—or, at least, don’t lie

• Lying (even to yourself) distorts reality and leads to long-term suffering. Truth—no matter how uncomfortable—is the foundation for a strong life.

9️⃣ Assume that the person you are listening to might know something you don’t

• Be open to learning. Real conversations happen when you listen, rather than just wait for your turn to speak.

🔟 Be precise in your speech

• Clarity in words = clarity in thought. If you can’t explain something clearly, you probably don’t understand it well enough.

1️⃣1️⃣ Do not bother children when they are skateboarding

• Let people take risks and learn through failure. Overprotection leads to weakness, while challenge builds resilience.

1️⃣2️⃣ Pet a cat when you encounter one on the street

• Find small moments of beauty and peace in life, even during tough times.

12 Rules for Life is a deep, thought-provoking book—but it’s not a light read. It took me longer to get through, and in hindsight, I wouldn’t have squeezed it into my #52Books52Weeks challenge. If you’re going to read it, be prepared to slow down and take notes.

That said, Peterson’s insights on responsibility, discipline, and personal growth align well with my Bucket List Life philosophy—take control of your own life, design it with intention, and continuously push yourself to be better.

📖 Have you read this book? What did you think? Let me know!

Stay tuned for Book 42 of 52 as I continue this adventure of learning and growth!

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